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Kristyn
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posted October 12, 2003 02:26 AM      Profile for Kristyn   Email Kristyn   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hello everyone, I am new to the board as of today, and it seems like a great place! I am 3 months pregnant, and on this months monthly doctor visit (2 days ago) I found out that I'm pregnant with twins, due April 20, 2004. I am completely shocked. There is no history of twins in my family. I was planning on just having 3 kids, this being my last, but twins will make me a mother of 4. Any advice?? How did you guys feel when you found out?? What's it like raising twins? Especially if you already have a 5 and 3 year old? Any feedback would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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~Kristyn
Proud wife to Jeff, and mom to Bridget & Branden


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lexi&lucysmom
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posted November 07, 2003 12:46 AM      Profile for lexi&lucysmom   Email lexi&lucysmom   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hello! I also found out I was having twins in my third month of pregnancy. My first reaction was to cry, cry, cry. I was blubbering so much that the nurse had to stop the ultrasound because my tummy was shaking too much from my crying. I was super scared. Worried how I would juggle two babies. Worried how we would afford it. Wondered if I would ever be able to work again (daycare cost vs staying home). My husband was elated because he had a feeling the whole pregnancy leading up to that day. He would tease me saying that I am having twins, and I would tell him that wasn't funny and not to freak me out. I couldn't believe it when his suspicions were confirmed. I was super sick the whole pregnancy and on bed rest since the confirmation of my twins. To make it even scarrier, my doctor gave me a 50/50 chance of one or both babies surviving. They were in the same sac with no membrane in between. But I must say after the pregnancy was over I was in love. I said after the first month they were born that I could even have another set of twins (of course during the pregnancy I was swearing I would never get pregnant again). My girls are 14 months old now. It gets harder and better in different ways. Now we have problems everywhere we go because of the child-proofing. But the cool thing is they are sooo eager to learn, and dance, and sing, and sign, and play. Soooo much fun. I am back to work two days a week and I also get out with just my girlfriends at least once a month. There is life after twins. It is sooo awesome. Congrats to you!
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posted November 11, 2003 04:09 PM      Profile for tray     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
hi, it is a shock when you find out your expecting twins but a nice one, i was over the moon when i found out at only 5 weeks pregnant that i was carrying twins as i had a miscarriage just a month earlier, however a five weeks they cud see the sacs but too early for the heartbeats so had to go back at 7 weeks to see for certain, and those 2 weeks were longest in my life, but happily there was 2 heartbeats, my little girls bethany and georgia are 2 and half now and are very hard work but so much fun, i also have a 10 year old boy and a 10 month old little girl after the twins, a handful but i wudnt change them for the world. and the birth of the twins was the easiest birth of all my children, had them naturally with only gas and air for pain relief,
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posted November 14, 2003 11:20 AM      Profile for Aileenc   Email Aileenc      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I was only ten weeks pregnant when we found out. Like you I also had two other children, including a 14 month old. My husband and I laughed at first and then got worried. But as time went on and we had no major problems with the pregnancy, we relaxed. I had full term twin girls who were 6 and a half and seven pounds at birth. My advice to you is wait until you get more information. Ultrasounds will tell you if your twins share a sac or placenta and if they are doing well. Don;t worry about stuff unless you know it is true. Some twin books scared the devil out of me, bed rest, preemies, etc... Just take it a day at a time and it'll go well

Aileenc


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simon casting
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posted November 14, 2003 04:14 PM      Profile for simon casting   Email simon casting   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hi,

Sorry to barge in on your chat board. But I am desperate at the moment. I am a Chicago casting director and I am working on a feature film. Of course, as it usually goes, I have an unbelievably short period of time to look....I am looking for 10-20 month old twins, girls and caucasian. This film, "A Series of Unfortunate Events", shoots immediately in LA and shoots until the end of March. I will be seeing twins tomorrow, Saturday at 3pm at my studio in Chicago. If anybody out there in cyberspace is from Illinois and is interested in this amazing opportunity, please give me a call at 312-202-0124

Thanks!

Claire Simon


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twins1020
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posted January 03, 2004 11:06 AM      Profile for twins1020        Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
I am a mother of 3 month old faternal twins. My husband and I got pregnant on birth control so it was a shock! No twins run in our family so when we found out at 7 weeks it was even more of a shock. After a very difficult pregnancy, emergency C-Section, one month in the NICU, and just recently getting over colic (both had it at the same time) I am seeing the rewards now of two babies. It is a hard adjustment but life would not be the same without them. We are all now sleeping through the night!
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posted January 24, 2004 10:06 AM      Profile for Denise   Email Denise   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hi, I'm a mother of 4 1/2 month old g/b twins I also have a 3 year old. /things are crazy these days the twins have not been having great nights these past two weeks. They are teething right now and I don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!! I wonder how my body keeps going! Any suggestions?

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D. Knight


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posted February 21, 2004 09:51 PM      Profile for jamie h.   Email jamie h.   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
hi denise. my boys are 5 1/2 months old and also teething and i have discovered a miracle called "chewy tubes." they are WONDERFUL. they're these small, plastic, unswallowable tube thingys that inants with even the slightest bit of fine motor capability can hold and manipulate into their mouths by themselves. i found out about them from my mom, who uses them for oral therapy on my 3 year-old sister who has speech problems. anyhow, they are sort of expensive, but absolutely worth it. regular teething stuff was making me so mad because my boys couldn't get them into their mouths or keep them there, but they love their chewy tubes and will happily gnaw away for hours without any help from mom, which is always a blessing. go to: Chewy Tubes Website
hope that was helpful.

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posted March 21, 2004 06:05 PM      Profile for allexandi   Email allexandi   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Jan. of 2003 I found out I was having twins! I had to go to the e.r. in the middle of the night because I started spotting. I was scared I was losing the baby because I just lost a baby in Sept. When the Dr. told me there was no problems just two babies I kept waiting for the bad news. After being reassured that there was no problem and this was pretty normal when having twins, I got real excited. My girls are now 7 months old and doing great. Andi, baby b, has been crawling for almost a month and is very high maintance. Always needing attention, and in everything. Allex, baby a, crawls backwards-just started that. Doesn't really care to do anything but play by herself. I have a 4 year old boy and if it wasnt for him I think I would go crazy. While i'm feeding one baby he will play with the other baby and keep her quite. My best advice for you is dont overthink it, it is overwhelming but only if you think about it. If you just do it, it will come naturally. Good Luck and Have Fun.

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allexandi


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posted April 20, 2004 02:24 PM      Profile for MillerFam     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Congrats! I found out at 20 WEEKS I was having twins! My OB told me no when I asked him (since I was so big) but then when my blood tests came back irregular, I saw a specialist. (My OB wasn't planning an ultrasound until week 21). I was shocked, no twins in our family either. I was LAUGHING so hard the ultrasound technician had to stop untl I calmed down. At the time, my oldest son was 2 1/2 - and to my surprise - two more sons would be on their way soon! Our Identical twin boys are now 11 months old. It has been the hardest thing in the world to be a mom to these boys (my former career I was a Director at a major Health Care company supervising over 25 employees). I wouldn't change it for the world - but I do wish for more help!!!
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