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Topic: No Help at home with new twins
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twobytwo
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posted March 24, 2004 05:47 PM
Wow, it sounds like your husband just isn't "buying in" to taking an active role with you. That stinks!! Maybe if you ask him to do specific things with the boys like "Could you please change his diaper?" or "Can you hold __ while I give __ a bath?" etc. If that doesn't work at all then is there any way you could get someone else to help you to give you a break? Any relatives close by or anyone you could get to babysit so you can have some time out? Maybe you and your daughter could have a day out together to give her some "mommy time." Is there anyway you could schedule something like that during each week? If your husband's choosing not to take an active part, at least maybe you can get some relief from being constantly "on" from somewhere else. What does he say when you tell him that you don't think he's helping enough? Did he do this with your daughter too?Wish I could offer something better!! Hope things improve soon!!! Kudos to you! -------------------- twobytwo
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