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Claudia
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posted 02-09-2004 04:12 PM      Profile for Claudia   Email Claudia   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hi, i'm a 19 year old identical twin female..me and my sister have been living together all our live and flatting together since we were seventeen. We are very different, yet very much the same..lately we have been fighting so much, and we really know how to hurt each other to..we wreck each others days constantly..i just don't know whether we should move apart, because as much as we threaten to, we still don't want to leave each other yet ..i just don't know how much more we can take..i hate being a twin sometimes! We are living with another girl our age..any advice?
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BRUCE WAYNE
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posted 02-10-2004 05:54 PM      Profile for BRUCE WAYNE   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
How much time do you spend with your sister?

Do you also work together?

Has any thing new or difrent happened between you?

Try talking to your sister outside of the house where you both feel comfortable. Try to be as clear as possible while talking to her. You may only need to talk and get things off each others chest.

Best of luck.

P.S. remind her of how important she is to you and give reasons why.

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Matt
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posted 02-13-2004 09:28 PM      Profile for Matt   Email Matt   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
yea, definatly just try to start clean every day. you can NOT hold a grudge againts your twin, its just impossible. Every day you wake up is a new day...because if you let things get to you and you decide to move apart, you will regret it.
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Twin24life
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posted 02-21-2004 03:53 PM      Profile for Twin24life   Author's Homepage   Email Twin24life   Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Hi my name is Karla, I have a twin Erica, we are 22 and cant spend more than 1 hour together without getting annoyed with each other! She is my total opposite now! We actually get in physical fights still, (mostly when we have been drinking) She trys to distance herself from me, we have been best friends since like age 17, WHEN SHE HAD A BABY! but two years later I had a baby, and now are kids are better friends than us! Help why is my sister crazy and mean?
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posted 02-25-2004 06:04 PM      Profile for BRUCE WAYNE   Author's Homepage     Send New Private Message      Edit/Delete Post  Reply With Quote 
Karla you and your sister Erica are learning things now at a diferent pace. The relationship you shared as children has changed. Because you both have changed.

You may have to give each other a fresh start and try to learn each other over again as if you were meeting a new person.

Just remember your sister loves you and will always be there for you. Even if you fight when you are together.

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