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tryingtobeme
Junior Member
Member # 2875

posted 09-08-2004 01:29 PM

My twin and I have had major problems since I got a boyfriend. I feel like I have ruined some of the greatest moments in my relationship with him because I constantly was worried about how she was feeling and sad. I only wanted her to have a bfriend too. Now she has one, and things are worse than ever. How can we not compare our relationships and boyfriends? I want a good relationship with my twin. Please answer me. I would be very interested in chatting with people who have this same problem. Thank you

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jenjag
Junior Member
Member # 2880

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posted 09-14-2004 09:51 AM

Dear trying.....

My suggestion to you and your sister is to focus on the good aspects of dating and your respective boyfriends. All guys are going to have their good points and bad points. It may be easier for you 2 if you focus on what you like about your guy. I would definitely talk to her if a serious issue comes up, but dating should be a fun happy thing, so try and focus on that.

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c-bubbles
Junior Member
Member # 2919

posted 09-30-2004 03:31 AM

Hi. I am myself a twin and am having major problems with the same topic. I am 32 and still live with my twin. I have been single for 11 years and now have just found a great guy to be with. Problem is my twin is jealous. She even has asked me to move out which I think would just make things worse. She does not have alot of friends and expects me to always be here waiting for her when she wants to do something. The really frustrating part is that I went through the exact same thing when she was dating and I was not. I had these involuntary feelings that I could not control. Same as most of the other messages, everything is fine for a few days until I do something to upset her. The solution is NOT breaking up with anybody. Twins have a special bond but need to break at some point. It does not mean that we don't want to be with our twin and we certainly can not be expected to live with them for the rest of oor lives. I myself do not know what the solution is. It is so hard. Fortunatley my b/f knows the situation and is very understanding. I am looking for any advice as well. I am at a loss.

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